Buying "The Big Four"
How-to tips for purchasing the most important products you will need: a baby bed, car seat, stroller and carrier.
Your options include a standard crib, miniature crib, bassinet, cradle or bedside co-sleeping bassinet. While a bassinet, cradle or co-sleeping bassinet offers a temporary sleep solution until your baby graduates to a regular crib, a smaller-than-normal portable crib with bars is a versatile short-term option, too.
What to look for Cribs should be certified by the Juvenile Products Manufacturers Association (JPMA); have a smooth finish; a strong mattress support that adjusts for different heights; and sturdy side bars. Portable cribs should be JPMA certified, have a firm mattress and fold compactly. On bassinets, look for sturdy legs that won't accidentally collapse; a firm, flush-fitting mattress with no gaps and easy access inside. Beside co-sleeping bassinet should have a firm, tight-fitting mattress and straps that securely fasten the sleeper flush against the side of the adult bed. (Remember, wherever they sleep, babies should always be placed on their backs or supported on their sides.)
All babies and children should ride restrained in the back seat of the car. Babies under 1 year of age must ride facing the rear of the car to protect their vulnerable necks and spines from whiplash during a crash. Infant-only seats, for newborns up to 25 pounds, usually come with a separate base that attaches to the car using your car's seat belt or LATCH (Lower Anchors and Tethers for Children) anchors. (Check your vehicle owner's manual to see if your car has the LATCH system.) An alternative is a "convertible" car seat that faces the rear for babies weighing up to 30 pounds and faces forward for toddlers weighing 20-40 pounds or more.
What to look for A five-point harness system with easy-to-adjust shoulder and waist straps and several slots for adjusting shoulder harnesses as the baby grows; adjustable seat angle; comfortable seat cushioning and headrest for infants; and the ability to safely hold a baby under 1 year old who weighs more than 20 pounds in the rear-facing position. For more information on car seat safety installation, go to www.nhtsa.gov.
Lightweight, easy-to-fold models with small wheels are convenient for running errands and racing to airport gates, but sturdy, midsized strollers are the most durable and dependable. Heavyweight strollers with big wheels provide a smoother ride on rough terrain and are best for fitness walking/jogging. Carriages or "prams" are ideal for city and sidewalk use, but can be heavier and are less compact.
What to look for Comfortable handlebar height; sturdy brakes; a five-point-restraint harness with adjustable shoulder and waist straps; maneuverability; a sun-shielding canopy; firm back support that offers multiple reclining positions for infants and napping toddlers; and a roomy storage bin underneath. (Consider giving a stroller a test drive with a heavy toddler in it.)
Slings and soft front carriers give you the benefit of keeping your baby close (calming for both of you) and having your hands free. Slings allow a young baby to snuggle against you for the first few months. A soft front carrier is perfect for younger and older babies, allowing them to face in or out.
What to look for For the parent: densely padded shoulder straps. You also may want a model with a waist belt or other type of lumbar support. For the baby: good head support and cushioned leg holes. Sturdy, nonslip buckles for adjusting shoulder and waist straps, as well as strong snaps for adjusting the baby's seat height are important.