So out of all this, how has fatherhood, real or imminent, changed you?
Kevin F.: I think it’s a sense of wonder at this unfolding relationship, of having him look into my eyes and know who I am.
Don: More than anything else, the feeling that what’s to come far exceeds anything I’ve given up.
Billy: There’s a Zen saying about how it’s better to want what you have than have what you want. I think that when you become a father, that’s particularly true. Now if I can just do that in real life, it’s gonna be great.