How Much Stress Is 'Too Much' When You're Pregnant?

When you're pregnant, it's natural for every emotion (including stress) to be heightened—partly thanks to those surging pregnancy hormones. And while it's true that everyone experiences stress sometimes, the mental state can be downright dangerous while expecting.

Research has long shown that high levels of stress can negatively impact the health of a pregnant person and their fetus. Indeed, prolonged bouts of severe stress is associated with complications like preterm birth, low birth weight, and even sleep and behavioral disorders.

Thankfully, minor everyday stressors (like impending deadlines at work, an argument with your partner, or an interruption in your routine) can certainly feel stressful, but they are mostly harmless to your pregnancy.

So, how much stress is "too much" when pregnant? The answer depends on what kind of stress you're experiencing and how you handle it. Read on to learn more.

What Type of Stress Is Dangerous for Pregnancy?

While minor everyday stress isn't ideal, it's not generally harmful to your pregnancy. Severe, chronic stress is the root of most issues. This type of stress could be caused by any number of things, including:

• Life events such as job loss, serious illness, death of a loved one, or divorce
• Catastrophic events like earthquakes, floods, hurricanes, terrorism, or war
• Mental health conditions such as depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), or eating disorders
• Environmental stress such as that caused by poverty, systemic racism, or domestic violence and abuse

Of course, some of these issues can cause more problems than stress alone. For example, poverty and systemic racism can negatively impact pregnancy because they place unfair and burdensome barriers between pregnant people and access to quality health care, nutrition, safe housing, mental health services, paid parental leave, and child care services—and these factors compound.

How Stress Contributes to Pregnancy Complications

Stress is complicated, and experts don't entirely understand how it impacts a person's overall health, but there does appear to be a link between high levels of stress and certain health conditions and pregnancy complications.

For example, chronic stress can increase blood pressure and cause hypertension, potentially putting a pregnant person at risk for preeclampsia and preterm labor.

Chronic stress can also have more wide-reaching effects on a person's health during pregnancy. High levels of stress can suppress your immune system, making you more susceptible to infection. It can also negatively affect sleep, putting you at risk for sleep deprivation that can lead to accidents and injury. Finally, excess stress can exacerbate common pregnancy complaints like morning sickness and back pain.

How a person responds to stress can affect their pregnancy as well. For example, over- or under-eating and substance use (such as smoking, drinking alcohol, or using drugs) are common responses to stress that can have detrimental effects on a person's health and pregnancy.

How Pregnancy Stress Can Affect Babies After Birth

In addition to causing pregnancy complications, severe chronic stress during pregnancy can potentially impact babies even after they're born. Here's how, according to research.

Your baby's microbiome

Research has shown that stress in the first trimester can negatively affect the microbes that reside in a pregnant person's vagina. When a baby is born vaginally, the newborn is exposed to these microbes, which affects their own gut microbiome and brain development. In turn, the affected microbes impact the infant's immune system and metabolism.

Your baby's sleep

Researchers found that pregnant people who experience "preconception psychological distress," including diagnosed severe anxiety and depression, have babies with a 23% increased risk of sleep disturbances up to a year after birth.

The likely link: The stress hormone cortisol, which floods the body when you feel excess stress.

"This chemical can cross the placenta, affecting the part of the brain that regulates a child's sleep-wake cycles," says Thomas O'Connor, Ph.D., an associate professor of psychiatry at the University of Rochester Medical Center, who was involved in the study. "We know that child sleep is often an important measure of healthy development, so it's crucial that [pregnant people] pay attention to high-stress levels, which can ultimately trigger chronic anxiety and depression."

Your baby's stress response

In a study cited and discussed by the American Heart Association, researchers found that high levels of cortisol—the stress hormone—in pregnant people can have future consequences for their babies beyond their sleep.

When a person experiences chronic high levels of stress, their system pumps out higher levels of cortisol, which is the hormone that causes blood pressure and heart rate to increase, triggering the fight-or-flight response. The study showed that babies born under such conditions in the womb had difficulties with anxiety 45 years later.

Scientists believe that that flood of cortisol in the pregnant parent's system can alter the "setpoints" in a developing fetus's brain, eventually making that child's brain primed to deal with a threatening world. Although that research may sound like doom and gloom, it's important to note that these same researchers also found that how a person deals with their anxiety can make a huge impact on their quality of life.

Ways to Relieve Stress During Pregnancy

Some pregnancy stress is inevitable, but if stress begins to feel insurmountable or non-stop, you can relieve it in a number of ways. Here are a few tried-and-true methods to calm those anxious nerves.

• Find support. Talk to another pregnant person or experienced parent who can put any pregnancy fears into perspective.
• Journal. Jot down thoughts that keep you up at night; sometimes, getting problems on paper helps you take a more proactive approach to solving them.
• Exercise. Any form of light to moderate exercise, from a brisk walk to swimming laps, can be beneficial for relieving stress during pregnancy, but many people swear by prenatal yoga. Try out a class at your local community center or yoga studio or try a free online class from home.
• Meditate. Try practicing mindfulness, especially if you find your thoughts turning negative. Consider using a meditation app that can guide you through mediations and mindfulness exercises.
• Fuel your body. Do your best to eat a balanced diet that includes nutritious food choices, prenatal vitamins, healthy hydration, and, of course, the occasional treat.
• Prioritize restful sleep. Not only do you need sleep to function at your best, but that restful slumber is essential to the health of your growing pregnancy. Sleep can be elusive during pregnancy and times of high stress, so do what you can to get those zzz's as often as possible.
• Seek professional help. If you're having difficulty coping with your stress on your own or could use some additional support, consider seeking help from a mental health care provider. Not sure where to start? Try calling the National Maternal Mental Health Hotline at 1-833-852-6262.

The important thing is to find what works for you—even if it's as simple as closing your eyes and taking a few deep breaths or walking to clear your mind.

Since every person experiences stress differently, and what drives you to the edge may be no big deal for someone else, it's important to know yourself and your limits. If you start to experience symptoms you can't shake (like feeling worried all the time, losing interest in your life, feeling hopeless, sleeping or eating more or less than usual, or having difficulty concentrating), you should let your doctor know. These could be signs of depression or an anxiety disorder that should be addressed and treated right away.