Sexy, Single & Pregnant in the City of Angels | Fit Pregnancy

Sexy, Single & Pregnant in the City of Angels

Throughout my life I have always taken the road less traveled, so to speak, but I never imagined the possibility that I could end up single and pregnant at 33.

Those beloved period symptoms (sore, swollen breasts, mild cramping, bloating, ravenous hunger, etc) started on cue around the time I usually got my period, which was never really regular but usually fell within a week span. After two weeks of no period, I mentioned it to my friend Sarah at lunch.

“Go get a test, right NOW,” she ordered me. “You are totally pregnant.”

I laughed it off, but later that night it haunted me in bed. Being pregnant at this stage in my life wasn’t fathomable. Even though I wanted to be a mother, I never wanted it to happen like this. I needed the house, the husband and an excess of money. The excitement of the Jason relationship had worn off, and it was clear he wasn’t going to conquer his demons anytime soon nor was there a future between us. But at the same time, I could never have an abortion, because I would regret it for the rest of my life.

I started obsessing over the pregnancy possibility but there was no way in hell I could walk into the local CVS and buy a test. If I had a big diamond bauble on my finger, it would be so bad, but the checkout person would take one look at my naked ring finger and I would be branded a whore.

A few nights later I told my friend Susan what was going on.

“Dude. You are totally preggers,” she said to me, talking me into splashing down twenty bucks for a test I knew would come back negative.

Seconds after I peed on that little oh-so-dreaded white stick, the elusive second line came streaming down, as if in slow motion, until it came to a halt, completing the double line symbol that every woman inherently knows translates to PREGNANT.

“Congratulations,” Susan saluted me. “You are going to be a mother.”

A mother? A baby inside of me. Pregnant. It was all so surreal, a scene out of a movie. This was not the way I thought it would happen. Not the way I thought it would feel. How was I going to tell Jason? What about my job? How could I support a child? Did I even have maternity insurance? What would my parents say? I was pregnant, and probably single, at 33.

To be continued…

*All names have been changed to protect the guilty
 

NEXT:
Part 2:
Officially Single and Definitely Pregnant
Part 3: The Single-and-Pregnant First-Trimester Blues 
Part 4: I'm Single and Pregnant: How Am I Going to Afford This Baby?
Part 5: How My Pain Forced Me to Change


--Leah Ornstein is a freelance writer who recently relocated to Charlottesville, Virginia, from Los Angeles. She is currently working on her first novel.

To be continued…

*All names have been changed to protect the guilty

- See more at: http://www.fitpregnancy.com/getting-pregnant/fertility-conception/offici...

To be continued…

*All names have been changed to protect the guilty

- See more at: http://www.fitpregnancy.com/getting-pregnant/fertility-conception/offici... 4: 

Here, three ways to secure the support you’ll need as a new single mom: - See more at: http://www.fitpregnancy.com/pregnancy/sex-relationships/pregnant-and-sin... 4: Here is the title
Page: