Don't buy lots of junky toys.
Do make special gifts: baby blanket for David, apron for Elise, scrapbook for Julia
Don't be too uptight.
Do buy a few junky toys.
Don't exchange gifts with grownups.
Do prepare a wonderful meal. Have each person bring something delicious.
Don't stress over a group photo for annual Christmas card.
Do upload individual snapshots of the kids and make an online card.
Don't pig out on holiday cookies and eggnog.
Do eat lots of Clementine oranges and pomegranates.