When I was getting ready to leave the hospital with my newborn son, my husband left the room first to bring the car around to the exit doors. He had left with a cart (yes, a cart!) loaded with my birthing ball, my overnight bag and a million other things we thought we needed to have a baby but didn’t, and the only things he had left behind were the car seat and our son.
Q: My baby had a hearing test before she left the hospital, but now that she’s a few months old, I’m concerned she’s not hearing properly. What should I do?
If you have any doubts about your baby or toddler’s hearing, talk to your doctor and get a thorough evaluation by a specialist as soon as possible. Hearing impairment can have a significant impact on your child’s development, and if there is a problem, you want to catch it early.
If you don’t have bucks to burn on a professional photographer for that perfect baby announcement photo, don’t stress. Follow these tips from photographer Ted Catanzaro of Los Angeles-based Ted & Debbie to best capture your cutie:
Avoid using flash: Create soft, filtered light by hanging a sheer curtain in front of a window or lamp.
Get up close and personal:
Capture close-ups of your baby’s toes, hands and face.
With the right gear and these expert tips, you can bathe your baby with ease. These tub-time essentials make a splash. You may also find this newborn advice helpful: • How to Calm a Colicky Baby
The first six weeks can be a real trial. Hold on to the thought that right around that six-week mark you will be rewarded with one of the most gratifying milestones in your entire parental career--your baby will beam a genuine smile at you. Yes! Your baby can now track objects with his eyes, and can be put on his tummy several times a day for short periods of time.
Even at this young age, your newborn can recognize voices and focus on your face or a toy if it is close to his face. He is learning to track objects with his eyes.
In your baby's second month, he'll flash his first intentional smile. His movements become more voluntary and less jerky, and your baby gains control of his neck. He also starts batting and kicking at toys.
Every now and then we hear a news story about a baby that’s kidnapped from a maternity ward. It’s rare, it’s terrifying and it freaks parents and hospital staff out. What happens more frequently is when non-custodial parents or parents who aren’t allowed to take their baby home from the hospital (because of criminal activities or because they’ve lost parenting rights) try to sneak their baby out of the hospital. It’s because of these rare events that hospitals have tight newborn security policies.
You have a free pass to be a terrible hostess for the first few months after your baby is born. Have your husband firmly explain to his parents that you are exhausted from staying up all night; they’re welcome to visit from 4 p.m. to 5 p.m., or whenever your patience is at its peak, but after that, you’re going to crash. At 5:01, yawn, mumble something about leaky breasts (that usually gets the men to skedaddle) and head off to your bedroom with the baby. If they insist on staying, your hubby can say, “Great! We haven’t had a chance to do a thing around the house.
Is it terrible? No. Will you be the first couple to have sex with a baby asleep in the room? Definitely not. The fact is babies (especially newborns) can sleep through anything, including the sounds of sex. But if the idea bothers you, try to be quiet and quick (this means lots of foreplay) or change your location. Experiment with having sex in other places in your home (kitchen, bathroom, closet, etc.).
Shortly after your baby is born, he’ll receive his first shots and medications for some very serious health issues, including a rare bleeding disorder and a few sexually transmitted diseases. Very few parents question why their baby needs these medications, but a few who do, ask: Why should my child be treated for health problems he probably doesn’t have? Because your child is part of the general population.
Very common: At least 1 in 50 babies has these dimples. In fact, I see them every few months, and my advice is always the same: Do nothing at all, but watch for any discharge or swelling. If you do notice either of these, your doctor will want to make sure your child doesn’t have an infection or that a cyst isn’t beginning to form. If, on the other hand, your baby has a large dimple that is unusually colored, or that has any drainage or seems to be tender shortly after birth, your doctor will need to order tests immediately—likely an ultrasound and/or MRI.