False vs. True Labor

Sometimes the only way to know if you’re in actual labor is to go to the hospital, but there are some key differences to help you make the call yourself. (Notify your doctor or go to the hospital if your contractions are occurring every 5–10 minutes or if your water breaks.)

False Labor
  • Contractions are irregular and don’t increase in frequency.
  • Contractions stop when you change positions.
  • Your pain level stays the same.
  • You can keep talking through each contraction.
True Labor
  •  Contractions are regular and increase in frequency.
  • Moving around doesn’t stop the contractions.
  • Your pain increases.
  • The pain is such that you have difficulty talking.




All About the Third Trimester

Our guide to the exciting last third of pregnancy

BY Laurie Tarkan

photography: MARK HANAUER

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With your due date finally just around the corner, you’re eager to hold that baby in your arms—and maybe nervous about giving birth, too. You enter the third trimester filled with energy, but as your body continues to grow and change, you may start to feel tired and experience new aches and pains. How much bigger can I get? you wonder. Let’s face it: You get a tad tired of being pregnant. But there are plenty of things to do to keep your mind off of your expanding figure and the annoyances that come with it. Just follow our guide to the exciting last third of pregnancy, weeks 29–40.


Your Body

As you head into the final stretch, remember to keep eating right and exercising so that your baby gains the proper amount of weight and you’re in the best possible shape for labor and delivery.

Eat often You should gain one pound a week. To do this, get 300 extra calories a day from one serving each of protein and carbohydrate foods, advises Kelly Kullick, R.D., a personal trainer and the Atlanta-based owner of HealthyMoms, LLC. You may feel full halfway through meals because your uterus is pressing on your stomach. Kullick’s solution: “I recommend six to eight smaller meals a day rather than three big ones.” Keep in mind that you still need prenatal vitamins, at least eight glasses of water a day and 1,000 milligrams of calcium daily.

Keep moving As long as you’re not at risk for delivering a preterm baby, exercise is safe in the third trimester. But if you’re used to doing moderate- or high-impact exercise, discuss with your doctor or midwife whether you should continue your routine, says Lisa Stone, a certified pre- and postnatal fitness specialist and president of Fit For 2 Inc., a fitness program for pregnant women and new moms in Atlanta. Avoid lifting heavy weights, as they can put too much stress on tendons and ligaments, which become more relaxed late in pregnancy. Whatever your exercise level, scale back if you feel dizzy or lightheaded and try prenatal yoga classes or brisk walking instead. “Pay attention to your body’s signals,” Stone says. “They’ll let you know when you’re overdoing it.                     “Keeping up abdominal and back exercises is important to help with postural changes and stability,” she adds, “and to keep your body strong after the baby’s born, when you’ll have a lot of lifting to do.” Since doing crunches on your back is not safe, switch to standing pelvic tilts or lying on your side or on your hands and knees; concentrate on bringing your navel toward your spine.


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Laurie Tarkan contributes regularly to The New York Times and is the mother of 2-year-old Miranda. She was expecting her second child at press time.

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