20 Reasons You'll Miss Being Pregnant

Enjoy these perks now (they'll be gone soon enough)



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At some point in your life you’ve probably been reminded to “enjoy the journey.” That’s sage advice for most of life’s adventures, but it’s particularly true for the 40 miraculous weeks you’ll spend with your baby growing inside you.  Of course, your rosy glow of pregnancy sometimes can be clouded by less pleasant side effects that come with the turf — everything from finding your butt and hips having melded into one to the need for buying antacids in bulk. But why bemoan a few inconveniences when your body has just become a miracle of nature? It’s much more rewarding to focus on the positive.  “I know this is going to be my last child, so I’m savoring every aspect of my pregnancy,” says Janet Crawford, R.N., a Lamaze-certified childbirth instructor in Boulder, Colo. “Knowing it’s the last time my body will go through this has heightened my appreciation.”  So enjoy this time while it lasts. To help you do so, we’ve compiled a list of 20 things you just might find yourself remembering wistfully once your baby is born.

1) having a secret   Before anything shows on the outside, you know something’s happening on the inside. For the first few months you might look like your same old self, but you know something that no one else does. (Unless you choose to tell them, of course!)

2) smiles from total strangers   Once you start showing, you might be surprised at what a friendly place the world has become. You’ve joined the sorority, sister, and your stunning silhouette brings smiles, questions and congratulations.

3) naps In our go-go-go world, there may not be another time in your life when you don’t have to feel guilty about sneaking in a 30-minute snooze after lunch. In fact, when you’re pregnant, naps are practically prescribed. So slumber away blissfully: Soon enough you’ll be sleeping on your baby’s schedule — in other words, naps may be the only sleep you’ll get.

4) that rosy glow The pregnant woman’s glow might be more myth than reality, says Allan Lichtman, M.D., clinical professor in the obstetrics and gynecology department at the University of Southern California School of Medicine. “You do get some increased blood circulation, but it generally doesn’t show on the face,” Lichtman explains.
But just as we’re about to cross this off the list, Lichtman offers another explanation. “I do see wonderful smiles and happiness, and that emotion is translated onto the face.” Aha — an inner glow. Even better.

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Dagny Scott Barrios is the author of Runner’s World Complete Book of Women’s Running (Rodale, 2000). Specializing in fitness and lifestyle, she writes from her home in Boulder, Colo., with her 1-year-old daughter, Bianca, on her lap.

User Comments:

  1. All these things are right on! This is my first baby and I have thoroughly enjoyed this pregnancy from even the queasiness (ok, not that part) to the special attention to that secret smile I keep to myself as I imagine this precious little one and what he might look like. I love feeling him move inside and the joy my husband takes in feeling all his rolling and kicking too. Thank you for reminding all of us expectant mommies what a pleasure, joy and blessing even this somewhat uncomfortable stage can be. Being pregnant is amazing!
    — Tracy
  2. My son is 3 months old and I never thought I'd say this...but I really do miss being pregnant. I miss feeling him move inside me and I didnt have to share him with anyone then. He was all mine! I could keep all of his little movements and kicks to myself. Its true, you do feel special. I miss that feeling. I wish I had enjoyed it more while I was pregnant because I sure miss it now that its gone!
    — Shelly
  3. I totally agree with everything...i miss being pregnant with my son so much...i wish i could of enjoyed every bit of it but i was so anxious i just wanted to hold my baby in my arms...i wish i could be preg with him for just one more day.
    — janell

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