20 Reasons You'll Miss Being Pregnant

Enjoy these perks now (they'll be gone soon enough)



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11) tiny hiccups & big kicks There is simply no substitute for the wonder of feeling your child move inside you. “Movement is just a winner for everybody,” Lichtman says. Ultrasounds and sonograms are wondrous but distant meetings with your unborn child. It’s that first squirm in your belly that signals a personal hello.
For the next several months, you’ll be tracking kicks and rolls and what feel like somersaults, learning the rhythm of your child’s day before anyone else. The first time your baby has the hiccups after she’s born will be a sweet yet sad reminder of what you used to feel inside.

12) being taken care of  You’re led to the front of the line, the door is cheerily opened for you, and your sweetie even offers to bring you a snack and rub your feet. Isn’t this the way life should be? So what if it isn’t PC — it sure is fun. Let’s face it, after your baby’s born, you will be the one carrying the bundle and wiping up messes wherever you go.

13) all that motivation  When pregnant, you’re motivated like never before — you watch what you eat, eliminate unhealthful habits, get plenty of rest and stay physically active. “Pregnancy is a good opportunity for a woman to develop a sound nutrition plan and healthy habits for the rest of her life,” Kundrat says. Cutting your daily dose of caffeine, eliminating artificial sweeteners and increasing your water intake are all smart moves for baby. If you can stick with them, these better habits will serve you well for years to come.

14) fabulous follicles Some women will get thicker hair during pregnancy and some won’t, says Shangold. (Changing hormone levels can synchronize hair growth so it is all in the same phase, meaning more hairs might be on your head at a given time.) Like everything else on the list, enjoy it while it lasts.

15) who cares if your clothes fit? This may be the only time in your life when you’re supposed to expand like a balloon. But don’t use that as an excuse to inflate beyond reason: A steady, gradual and not too extreme weight gain is advised during pregnancy.

16) you’re never alone  Of course, you will have your bundle of joy when it’s all over and done with. But sharing your body with your child provides an intimacy unmatched by any other relationship.

17) a better body image Pregnancy brings countless changes to your body. Paying attention to the nuances of that child growing inside you means you’ll feel everything from your breath to your belly with new appreciation. “A lot of people are more aware of their bodies during pregnancy,” Shangold says. But, she adds, some women are not so happy with the way their bodies change. “It would be nice if all pregnant women would think of the pregnant body as being beautiful,” she says.

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Dagny Scott Barrios is the author of Runner’s World Complete Book of Women’s Running (Rodale, 2000). Specializing in fitness and lifestyle, she writes from her home in Boulder, Colo., with her 1-year-old daughter, Bianca, on her lap.

User Comments:

  1. All these things are right on! This is my first baby and I have thoroughly enjoyed this pregnancy from even the queasiness (ok, not that part) to the special attention to that secret smile I keep to myself as I imagine this precious little one and what he might look like. I love feeling him move inside and the joy my husband takes in feeling all his rolling and kicking too. Thank you for reminding all of us expectant mommies what a pleasure, joy and blessing even this somewhat uncomfortable stage can be. Being pregnant is amazing!
    — Tracy
  2. My son is 3 months old and I never thought I'd say this...but I really do miss being pregnant. I miss feeling him move inside me and I didnt have to share him with anyone then. He was all mine! I could keep all of his little movements and kicks to myself. Its true, you do feel special. I miss that feeling. I wish I had enjoyed it more while I was pregnant because I sure miss it now that its gone!
    — Shelly
  3. I totally agree with everything...i miss being pregnant with my son so much...i wish i could of enjoyed every bit of it but i was so anxious i just wanted to hold my baby in my arms...i wish i could be preg with him for just one more day.
    — janell

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